The Filter Theory of mate selection, developed by Kerckhoff and Davis, explains how individuals use filters to find compatible romantic partners. It starts with sociodemographic factors like age and education, progresses to shared values and attitudes, and finally, complementarity in roles and behaviors. This theory has influenced psychological research on human mating patterns, despite some scholarly debate and ongoing refinement.
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Individuals consider factors such as age, education, and social class when selecting a romantic partner
Religion and geographical proximity also play a role in mate selection
Sociodemographic factors can influence the social circles one moves in and the potential for meeting a compatible partner
Shared attitudes, values, and beliefs are crucial in the early stages of a relationship
Partners seek alignment in areas such as political views, religious beliefs, and attitudes towards family and career
Relationships are more likely to thrive when partners share similar outlooks on fundamental issues
Complementarity becomes more prominent in relationships that have lasted beyond 18 months
Partners in a relationship may have complementary roles and behaviors that contribute to mutual satisfaction and resilience
One partner may excel in financial management while the other thrives in nurturing family relationships
Some scholars have encountered challenges in replicating the original findings of the Filter Theory
Longitudinal studies have suggested that partners may grow more similar over time, challenging the idea that similarity is a prerequisite for relationship formation
The Filter Theory continues to be a subject of scholarly discussion and refinement, contributing to a deeper understanding of human romantic relationships